Acknowledging the impact we have on others

As we continue to examine the relationships in our lives that need repair to improve certain situations, we must go beyond simply identifying a name and what we hope to gain. We need to reflect on the impact of our actions, behaviors, and words. 

It’s natural to make some assumptions during this process, and that’s okay. Perfection isn’t necessary because we are building within ourselves a willingness to go further and acknowledge our role in the conflict.

This week, take a moment to pause and reflect on the list from last week. Consider what effect our actions had on others. Is anything holding you back from attempting to repair the relationship by taking responsibility for your actions? 

For many of us, fear of retaliation or the possibility that the other person won’t be receptive can be significant. The fear that the conflict will just get worse can keep us from moving forward. 

Hold on to these thoughts and remember:

• We cannot control others’ actions and feelings
• We move forward by doing what we believe is best
• We have been given wisdom from our experiences and the insights of others 

Embracing this understanding can empower us to take meaningful steps toward living in healthier relationships, personal growth, and experiencing more of God’s peace.